trust

It must be hard to be with someone you can't trust. Someone who cheated on you. I mean think about it, how do you know what they are doing while you are away from the house? While the cat's away, the mouse will play-isn't that the saying? Even people who have kids, if they aren't old enough to talk they can't say anything. I know a woman who took her baby with her when she was cheating (with a man who was cheating on his wife). Gross, I know, but people do it.

Nowadays with the internet, it's so easy for cheaters to hook up too.

helpful links

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

love these

I can't imagine living a life where all you have left is your  trip to the post office to give you a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Pretty pathetic. Or when you hurt your children to get back at someone. What kind of people do that?

On the other hand, I am looking forward to a day filled with tanning, shopping for clothes, pedicure, grocery shopping (with real money), eating out, planning my next vacation (my future husband is going to take me places!...oh heck he already has.), and meeting with the decorator to re-do the (what's a good adjective here?) decor in my soon to be new 2800+sf  house.

And of course the wedding planning. Nothing shows how much a man loves you than when he wants to marry you. On the other hand, when a relationship is constantly on the rocks and you have to start reading relationship books....well, all the books in the world can't fix dysfunction.

hits but no followers...

Lots of hits on my blog but no followers. When I get to one follower we will have a giveaway. I will give away an old book I have lying around the house.

I love my life! No buts! Finally i have everything the way i want it. Looking forward to building a bigger house and having us all under one roof, planning a wedding, moving forward without any baggage.