helpful links

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

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I can't imagine living a life where all you have left is your  trip to the post office to give you a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Pretty pathetic. Or when you hurt your children to get back at someone. What kind of people do that?

On the other hand, I am looking forward to a day filled with tanning, shopping for clothes, pedicure, grocery shopping (with real money), eating out, planning my next vacation (my future husband is going to take me places!...oh heck he already has.), and meeting with the decorator to re-do the (what's a good adjective here?) decor in my soon to be new 2800+sf  house.

And of course the wedding planning. Nothing shows how much a man loves you than when he wants to marry you. On the other hand, when a relationship is constantly on the rocks and you have to start reading relationship books....well, all the books in the world can't fix dysfunction.

hits but no followers...

Lots of hits on my blog but no followers. When I get to one follower we will have a giveaway. I will give away an old book I have lying around the house.

I love my life! No buts! Finally i have everything the way i want it. Looking forward to building a bigger house and having us all under one roof, planning a wedding, moving forward without any baggage.